Letting go is a process. It doesn’t happen overnight.
Letting go is a choice. Are you mindfully taking the decision?
Letting go is your right. And if you are in a bad relationship or situation… it becomes your obligation.
Letting go can be hard if you…
Concentrate in the past. It doesn’t matter if you think of the good and the bad moments
Believe that you will never find someone better than him. (You should know that is statistically impossible. So many great men out there)
Believe that you don’t deserve better
Letting go can be easier if you…
Love yourself like if there’s no one else on earth like you!
Raise your standards
Find your life purpose
Feel compassion for yourself (this is not self-pity. It’s being empathetic of your human experience)
Forgive yourself and others
Take responsibility for your past and future decisions
Trust the universe will bring the right person into your life. Again, so many great men out there
Be humble and admit that so far your way is not the right way
Be willing to learn a new way. As Einstein said “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”
Plan for the future today
So the questions now for you are:
What is your plan?
What are you going to change so next time you have different results?
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